Learning Ability

 To grow we need intellectual curiosity, a bias for action and a method to avoid repeating our mistakes.

However, most of us are in self-destruct and self-paralysis mode. We all know what needs to be done and yet we fail to do it. This makes us feel miserable. 

But why do we let ourselves suffer? Is it fear? Is it laziness? Or is it lack of will-power?

Great people on the other hand go through the following virtuous cycle - 

Curiosity -> Learn -> Action -> Mistakes -> Reflect -> Learn. 

Successful people are a learning machine. They understand that taking action and not repeating the same mistakes are essential for moving forward. They have strong will and exceptional awareness. They may not have the highest IQ but they have good concentration and a very high EQ. 

Therefore, the question is - what can someone who struggles with 'growth' do? Obviously good intentions are not sufficient. We need something more.

I think the following may help:

1. Choose just one thing. Learn about it. 

2. Don't overthink. Take action. Get over the fear by taking baby steps. "Will" yourself to do things. Will is like a muscle, it strengthens if we use it. It's a synonym of self-control in this case. And the amount of will is directly proportional to our belief in our abilities. Therefore, make the effort. 

3. Don't get distracted. Be mindful (all the time). It will take time but start practicing now.

4. Reflect and make mental notes (or keep a journal). 

5. Hang around with great people. 

6. Have patience. Think long-term (most people cannot).