Three things that make life complete

The young Captain watched the May Queen beauty pageant at the local military club. After spending two years in the rugged Himalayas, he was savoring the change of pace—the cosmopolitan air, the vibrant atmosphere. Life felt good: a job he enjoyed, close friends, money in his pocket, a bike, and the freedom of a wandering spirit.

Standing beside his close pal, he watched the young women striding confidently down the ramp. He felt a controlled excitement within. Though tempted to grab a beer like everyone else, he resisted. Eye contact and friendly smiles from both familiar and unfamiliar faces added to the evening’s charm. The attraction he felt for the girls wasn’t one-sided, but he found himself avoiding them with the same restraint he exercised toward alcohol. He knew he wasn’t made for settling down—he was like a wild goose, and it felt safer to stick with his friends.

During a break in the program, they headed to the bar, refilled their glasses, and returned to the crowd. The Captain was more in a contemplative mood than anything else. The next day was Sunday, and the thought made him feel even better. Just then, he bumped into his former boss, now a senior brigadier, who was accompanied by his stunning daughter. The brigadier introduced them, and the Captain felt an immediate pull. They exchanged pleasantries, catching up on the latest developments in each other’s lives.

Then, as if by fate, the brigadier was whisked away by an old batchmate, leaving the young Captain alone with his daughter. For a brief moment, he hesitated, but quickly gathered himself and struck up a conversation.

Captain: "You didn’t participate in the contest?"
Girl: "No."
Captain: "But why not? You’re smart and beautiful."
Girl: "Thanks. But I stopped competing a long time ago."
Captain: "Oh, been there, done that?"
Girl: "Yeah, something like that. After a while, these things stop being exciting."
Captain: "I didn’t know you had a philosophical side."
Girl: "I’m more of a realist. You do it once to prove a point—to yourself and the world. Then, you move on to more meaningful things."
Captain: "Like?"
Girl: "Like living life to the fullest."
Captain: "You’ve got my attention—please, continue."
Girl: "No, not tonight. Let’s save that for another time."
Captain: "Fair enough. Let’s talk until your father gets back."
Girl: "Alright."
Captain: "So, what do you want to do with your life?"
Girl: "I’m more of a traveler. They say a good traveler doesn’t know where he’s going, and a great one doesn’t know where he came from."
Captain: "Wow. I’ve never heard that before."
Girl: "I believe in letting destiny take the lead and embracing whatever comes."
Captain: "So, you believe in destiny, karma, and all that?"
Girl: "We all do, don’t we? Don’t you?"
Captain: "Sort of. I haven’t really figured it out yet. But do you think everything is pre-destined?"
Girl: "Broadly, yes. But to keep life interesting, God gave us the freedom to make choices."
Captain: "Ah, now we’re bringing God into the mix."
Girl: "Why not? Don’t you believe in God?"
Captain: "I do, I do," he said, trying to shift the topic. "Actually, your thoughts are as beautiful as you are."
Girl: "Are you flirting?"
Captain: "No, I mean it."
Girl: "Well, I can tell you’re not the flirting type."
Captain: "So you have a sixth sense, huh? You can read my mind?"
Girl: "Women can sense a good man from a not-so-good one."
Captain: "Thanks for the compliment."
(She smiled.)
Girl: "So, what do you believe in?"
Captain: "Me? I don’t know. I’ve never given it much thought. I just want to live a good life, I suppose. But you’ve definitely given me something to think about. What’s your philosophy on life?"
Girl: "I believe we’re all here to learn, and we should enjoy the journey. We each have a role to play, and if we do it well and stay happy, we’re fulfilling our purpose. Life is a purification process—we should take our duties seriously, but we shouldn’t take life too seriously."
Captain: "I say things like that to my troops, but I never considered the deeper meaning."
Girl: "Most of us are like headless chickens, just following the herd without asking why. We chase after goals and, in the end, find ourselves disillusioned. My question is: are we here just to eat, sleep, make money, climb the career ladder, raise a family, grow old, and die?"
Captain: "No, I see your point. We need a purpose, something more to live for. And we should enjoy the ride. But sometimes, life gets so difficult, so painful."
Girl: "You wouldn’t appreciate it if everything were perfect all the time. Struggle is essential."
(Just then, the brigadier returned.)
Brigadier: "What have you two been talking about?"
Captain: "Oh, a lot, sir. Your daughter’s quite the deep thinker."
Brigadier: "You’d be happy to know she walks the talk and has been a huge influence in my life."
Captain: "I think she’s gained another admirer."
(She smiled again.)
Brigadier: "Well, we have to head off now. See you around, son."
The Captain didn’t hesitate and immediately asked the Brigadier -
Captain: "Sir, may I ask your daughter to coffee tomorrow?"
Brigadier: "Ask her, not me."
Captain: "May I? We could finish our conversation."
Girl: "Alright."
Captain: "5 PM, same place tomorrow?"
Girl: "Sounds good. Bye."

The Captain stood alone now, deep in thought, until his friend returned.
Friend: "Quite the beauty."
Captain: "Beauty and brains."
Friend: "Hmm... Seems like someone’s impressed."
Captain: "Yeah, we’re meeting again tomorrow."
Friend: "Wow, that’s quick."
The program resumed. It was the final round. Contestant number one walked up the ramp and took the mic. The judge asked, "What are the three things that make life complete?" She replied, "For me, it’s health, wealth, and wisdom."
Friend: "That’s such a lame answer. Beauty, and no brains."
Captain: "I don’t think there’s a right or wrong answer. What would yours be?"
Friend: "Easy. Love, change, and recognition."
The Captain was still thinking. He liked the love and change part but wasn’t sure about recognition.
After a while, the winners were crowned, and the dance began. He usually loved dancing, but tonight, someone had gotten under his skin. Then, he heard a familiar voice.
Girl: "You’re not dancing?"

It was her again, and he couldn’t help but smile from ear to ear.
to be continued….